love is just a game-

YSaturday, August 23, 2008

To FISH!

TO FISH !
i specially pose this post for u de hor
so u better read PROPERLY !

Here's a recipe for permanent misery .
a) Decide how u think the world should be
b) Make rules for how everyone SHOULD behave .

Let's say you expect that :
Friends should return favours
People should appreciate you
Planes Should arrive on time
EveryOne should be honest
Your Boyfriend Should rememeber ur birthday

These expectations may sound reasonable , But often , these things won't happen ! So u end up frustrated and dissapointed .

There's a better strategy , Dun have so many demands , Instead have preferences !
For things that are beyond ur control , tell urself :
"I WOULD PREFER 'A', BUT IF 'B' HAPPENS ITS OK TOO ! "

This is a game u play in ur head .
But if u make the game a habit , u have a peace of mind . ...

u prefer people that is polite .. but when they are rude, it doesn't ruin ur day .
U prefer sunshine , but rain is ok !
In other words, u practise flexibility .

to become happier , we need to either a) change the world , or b) change our thinking , it is easier to change our thinking .

so FISH ..... its not what happens to u that determines ur happiness, it's how u think about what happens to u .

IMAGINE two girls , Mary and Jane , Both have just broken up with their boyfriend.
MARY SAYS: "I'VE FAILED.. My life is over "
Jane says : " MY life has just begun !"

who will blossom and go far ?
think for urself my dear friend

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YSaturday, August 23, 2008

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